For many years, my desire has been to help women to transform themselves and the world around them. I was not always crystal clear on the exact formula to accomplish this, but I did understand that it all began on the inside. I have always been in touch with my inner-self although not always in a positive way. I remember how I would retreat inwardly to scold myself or to place myself on punishment, and verbally abuse myself. Almost like a parent abusing a child behind closed doors, but having the appearance of a happy family in public. That would describe how I treated myself for many years.
What I began to realize is that my outward appearance didn’t match how I truly felt on the inside, and people were beginning to figure that out. You see, no matter what a person appears to be on the outside, you can almost always tell how they really feel about themselves when you talk with them. For instance, if you compliment them on their dress or appearance, you will almost always receive a negative response that deflects the positive compliment. In other words, they are not able to receive compliments. When a person feels good about themselves they simply reply ‘Thank You’.
As the abused child began to show up more and more in my conversations and behavior, I became more frustrated because I only wanted to show the strong, confident and savvy woman who I aspired to become. I was in serious conflict and I needed to do something about this and fast!
Naturally, I went to a few bookstores and bought a few self-help books with the understanding that once I read the book I would be fixed. Wrong! It didn’t work like that for me because as I read the information, I analyzed it and counseled myself. I didn’t have a third-party assist me or correct misinterpretations of the information I may have read, so the problem thinking only improved incrementally. I did this over and over again, expecting that each book would be like a magic wand and make all of my problems disappear. Wrong again! I made very small steps forward, but still there was progression and my desire to help other women on grew.
As I bounced back from strife and situations I began to see that I had been gifted with a resilient nature. I also believe that my mother instilled that and encouraged me in that way as well. I realized that if I continued to get back up off the ground, retreat inward and work on “ME”, that I would improve myself and my life even if it was only gradually. As I matured and became aware of therapy I sought out that type of help through counseling, but I quickly realized that it was very expensive. That adventure didn’t last long, and I went back to what I knew best. Books!
Now, 15 plus years later, I am still here. I didn’t “check out” like I wanted to do on several occasions. I am still here. I kept getting back up, dusting myself off and moving forward. I am still here. My desire to help women continues and has long since been put into motion. I am still here. I know without a doubt what my Purpose is in life. I am still here. I now have the perfect Opportunity that is allowing me to fulfill my Purpose. I am still here. And now I have COMPASS as my guide. And, yes, I believe that is one reason why I am still here.
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I was so inspired and excited to know that I could take advantage of these services in 5 areas of my life – Life Balance, Money & Career, Relationships, Wellness and Spirit. This is what I had been searching for half of my life. It is like having a Personal Trainer for my Life! If there had been a company like this when I was a teenage girl I would have taken advantage of these services a long time ago.
Since there is no time like the present, I am taking full advantage of this opportunity. Not only am I receiving coaching, but also as a Certified COMPASS Representative, I am positioning myself to become a Certified COMPASS Coach as well. I couldn’t be happier in my life knowing that finally, I am in the right place at the right time in my life, and I have all these tools at my disposal to make my dreams a reality! COMPASS was my missing link.